Everyone structures their experience of the world through the five senses — seeing, hearing, feeling, tasting and smelling.  We have External senses and complimentary set of “internal senses” or also known as Representational Systems. Therefore, practice listening to how people present their experiences.
 For example when you say:
Visually – “I see this magazine in front of me.”
Auditorily – “I hear the sounds and noises around
Kinesthetically – “I feel this magazine in my